Want the inside scoop on dating while in an open relationship? In this thorough worksheet you'll find everything you need: how to write your dating profiles, where to meet people, what to talk about, fun date ideas, and more! With this guide you'll be able to approach dating in an entirely new way that will leave you energized and excited. What are you waiting for?

BID is a versatile communication and self-reflection tool that will help you get in touch with yourself before you initiate a difficult conversation, embark on a sexy adventure, go on a first date, or enter any other new situation. The process is simple: think about your boundaries, intentions, and desires. You can even take turns sharing with your partner. See the examples and try it yourself. Happy BID-ing!

Check out these flowcharts that represent the consent process at play parties that I go over in my workshop. Note: consent is a very complex and nuanced process. These flowcharts describe the basics within a specific party context, and broach only the tip of the iceberg that is the topic of consent. Use this as a starting point to find your words, and journey onward into educating yourself on consent and embodying consent culture! 

GBU is a versatile communication and self-reflection tool that will help you get in touch with yourself after any new or significant occasion. This could be a hot date, a relationship conversation, a sex party, or... Anything! Our experience is not all puppies and rainbows. Think about your Good, Bad, and Ugly. You can even take turns sharing with a partner. See the examples and try for yourself!

A digital version of the ultimate guide to sex parties created by Effy Blue and illustrated by Alizarin Zroob - as seen in Refinery 29, NYLON, Thrillist, and Cosmopolitan.com PLUS BONUSES. 

The Limited Edition ultimate guide to sex parties with deluxe cover and a personalized message of your choice created by Effy Blue and illustrated by Alizarin Zroob - as seen in Refinery 29, NYLON, Thrillist, and Cosmopolitan.com. 

PLUS a digital version of the ultimate guide to sex parties INCLUDING BONUSES and early access to the New York book launch event.

Dig into the Play Party Etiquette learning materials here. We adapted our famous workshop cirriculum - as seen in Refinery 29, NYLON, Thrillist, and Cosmopolitan.com - into a fun, nifty workbook with exclusive material, diagrams, worksheets, and more. Become a Play Party Pro now!

Download the ultimate checklist for play party preparation on the big night! This list will help you feel prepared, confident, and ready for a night of sexy shenanigans. 

Preorder for the second edition print book featuring all new illustrations by award-winning art director Alizarin Zroob. All pre-orders will be signed by both Effy Blue and Alizarin Zroob.

PLUS a digital version of the ultimate guide to sex parties - as seen in Refinery 29, NYLON, Thrillist, and Cosmopolitan.com INCLUDING BONUSES and early access to the New York book launch event.

This funsheet is a tool to guide and support your sexual exploration into adventure and kink, solo or with a partner(s). This is by no means an exhaustive list. Human sexual desires are varied and expansive so allow yourself to dig deep. Get creative and feel free to add activities not covered. I strongly recommend you print this and make a date out of it without screens and distractions. HAVE FUN!!!